How to Meet Tranny Girls, Transsexuals and T-Girls

By Liza, Webmistress @ Translover.Com

Hi everyone! From my first day as the new Webmistress here at TransLover.com I have had the pleasure of meeting and exchanging e-mails with so many hot and sexy people from all over.

The question that I'm asked most frequently is; How do I meet beautiful Tranny Girls?

I'm going to answer that question here and I hope that what I tell you and the suggestions I offer help you to connect with the Tranny Girl of your dreams.

Without a doubt, I could write volumes on how to meet Trannys and T-Girls, but I'm going to simplify things and give you the basics that will help you make your contacts more successful and perhaps the most rewarding experiences of your life!

Tips For Meeting Tranny Girls & T-Girls!

Tranny Girls and T-Girls are unique - Nearly all Tranny Girls and T-Girls find their femininity very satisfying and love the attention they get from a gentleman admirer. Notice the word "gentleman." When I feel that I'm being treated with the dignity and respect befitting a lady, I'm in heaven and most T-Girls feel the same way. Make a girl feel like a lady and you're well on your way to success! Many men say that nobody can make them feel the way a T-Girl can make them feel. I would guess that these guys know how to treat a T-Girl like a lady. Trannys and T-Girls are very unique and special people and many of them can make you feel unique and special too!

Know what you're looking for - Do you want a long-term relationship, short-term relationship or a sexual encounter. In other words, how serious are you. Perhaps you're interested in a sexual experience but you're open to the idea that it could lead to a long-term relationship. Do you want to meet a pre-op, post-op, transvestite, etc. In every aspect of the T-Girl and Tranny world there is a near endless variety of possibilities

Understand that not all Trannys and T-Girls are the same - It is keep in mind the wide variety and important that you have a basic understanding of the different types of Trannys and T-Girls. A common mistake is to assume that all Trannys and T-Girls are the same. This is disastrous to your goal and your misunderstanding could cause you to miss out on an opportunity to meet the T-Girl of your dreams. Some T-Girls are heterosexual male crossdressers. They usually aren't interested in men at all, so perhaps you shouldn't waste your time. Other Trannys are bi-sexual (your chances are improving here). Some Trannys and T-Girls are looking for men while others are looking for women. Some are seeking complete sex changes, and others are not. Some live full-time as women, others live part-time as women. Are you confused yet? You really shouldn't be. T-Girls and Trannys fall somewhere within a broad spectrum. Read or listen as T-Girls describe themselves and you will soon see exactly where they are in their life and where they're going. A dialog between you should resolve any remaining questions. Remember that you're looking for someone who will compliment what you want and your job is to narrow the field to those who are looking for someone just like you! Remember that we are people much like any other and that dignity and respect are always paramount!

What kind of Tranny or T-Girl do you want to meet? - What can be among the most awkward topics is also one of the most important. You already know that not all Trannys and T-Girls are the same. The fact is that many of them are actively pursuing sex change surgery and are uncomfortable with their male genitalia. These Trannys are not likely to respond favorably to your desire to fondle their "extra parts." Others are quite comfortable with themselves and are willing to explore all aspects of their sexuality. Simple communication and polite and respectful questions will help to clarify this and you can decide what is important to you. I would suggest that you pose a question whenever it is appropriate, such as, how would you want your partner to satisfy you? Notice that this question seeks to draw out a response and you may be surprised at what you can learn about someone by asking these types of questions. Obviously this wouldn't be the first question you would want to ask, but asked at the right time, a probing question can provide you with a great deal of information and insight.

Use appropriate terminology - You will quickly learn that not all T-Girls like being called "Trannys" or "shemales". While some of us don't mind the term, it is an error in terminology that can quickly sour someone's interest . Indeed, many well-intentioned admirers have struck out simply because of a misguided attempt to be friendly. Here is a good rule to follow; Don't refer to anyone as a shemale, transsexual, transvestite, etc. until you have asked what she prefers to be called. A politely worded inquiry should prompt a T-Girl to let you know exactly what term she considers most appropriate. If you must use a term, rather than her name, perhaps the term transgendered is the least offensive of all the terms. This is a generic term that fits most T-Girls and will rarely offend someone.

Avoid horrible opening lines - I am too often confronted with the blundering approach and wonder if anyone ever gets the response they hoped for with lines like, "hey, any chicks with dicks in this chat room?" or, "I sure could use a shemale to suck my dick." You have to ask yourself, is my intention to offend people, or do I want to meet someone that will enrich my life? If you chose the latter, you will probably want to avoid the demeaning and offensive opening lines. Instead, try showing an interest in T-Girls similar to what you see online in the personal ads, in chat rooms, on message boards or even in person. Begin by introducing yourself briefly and asking permission to chat, e-mail or whatever. Try exchanging information, making small talk and getting to know the Girls. By investing a little time to get to know us, you will be able to decide between those of us who you genuinely have an interest in and those you don't. You wouldn't be attracted to a woman if she approached you with insults and offensive remarks and neither would we.

Search the personal ads - Personal ads are one of the best ways to meet quality people. Unlike people who are chatting in the chat rooms, or who post messages on bulletin boards, the people who place ads in personals are interested in meeting others. In fact, they are so interested that they have taken the time to place a personal ad. I recommend that you first search the personal ads to see if you find someone interesting. If so, politely respond to their ad to see if you can begin corresponding. If all goes well, perhaps this will result in a personal meeting and romance! If you don't see anyone that matches your criteria, try placing your own personal ad. A recent photo in your ad is an absolute must. When used properly, personal ads are one of the most effective and least expensive methods for meeting quality people. I frequently hear back from people who have met someone special in the personals and I'd love to hear your success story!

Visit the nightclubs - You may wish to find a local nightclub where you can meet Trannys and T-Girls in person. This offers the advantage of immediately knowing if there is an attraction. There is also the possibility of an evening of immense satisfaction if the two of you really hit it off. There is also a disadvantage that you must be aware of. While many of the Trannys and T-Girls go to transgender friendly nightclubs to socialize in a safe environment, there are others who are there to sell their wares. Some of the Trannys and T-Girls you will meet at nightclubs are professionals and you will pay a price for their affection. For those of you who want to check out the transgender friendly nightclubs, there is an online listing at http://www.translover.com/tranny-clubs.htm - This can be an effective way to meet T-Girls, but please let common sense be your guide and be careful!

Use online resources - There are a number of online resources that will help you understand and meet Trannys and T-Girls. Among these are chat rooms, message boards, personal ads and directory searches. Each one has their own advantages and disadvantages. It is unlikely that you will make a romantic connection in the chat rooms and message boards, but who knows? I still recommend that you familiarize yourself with each of these resources. You will learn about Trannys and T-Girls in the process. You'll be amazed at what you can learn if you sit back and read the posts along with replies. For example, watch the T-Girls go ballistic when a guy enters a chat room and says, "hey, anybody want to suck my 9 inches." Again, as obvious as it would seem, if your not polite and respectful at least, the response is likely to be much less friendly than you would want.

Make a great first impression - Whether in person or in writing, making a good first impression is critical for success. Most of us understand the importance of being clean and presenting ourselves in a positive manner in person to person meetings. What many of us fail to realize is that first impressions are equally important in written communications. When you are e-mailing, chatting online or exchanging Instant Messages, you must rely on mere words to make a good first impression. You will want to carefully choose your words so you don't come off as offensive. Good grammar and spelling is important, so don't get sloppy just because you're communicating electronically. It is also important that you don't give the impression that you're impatient, insincere or desperate. Practice being a good communicator, which means expressing yourself well and being a good listener. Using good communication skills, you will be able to learn about the Trannys and T-Girls you meet and find the ones that interest you most.

Promote yourself! - Here is a great tip that will pay off big if used properly. If you are sincere in your desire to meet a T-Girl, take a little time and make yourself a website. It doesn't have to be elaborate, but it should include some basic information about you. A photo is a must. A recent photo is essential because you probably aren't going to impress anyone if you publish a 15 year old photo of you and then they meet the present you. Describe yourself honestly and state exactly what you're looking for. Tell a little about your interests, dislikes and anything that makes you interesting or different from all the other guys they may hear from. You don't have to be a professional website designer. There are many programs available online that guide you through the process of setting up a website easily and painlessly. AOL members can set up a hometown page for free. There are other free services such as .MySpace.com, geocities.com and countless others. The idea is that you can provide a link to your personal website to anyone you meet online, whether you are chatting in a chat room, responding to a personal ad or responding to a message board post. This is a great way to attract people who are truly interested in you!

Steer clear of the bad apples - Just like other people in the real world, some Trannys and T-Girls have drug or alcohol problems, nasty dispositions, etc.. A few simple questions will reveal many of these undesirable traits. Be honest and sincere in your communications and expect the same from others. I say it is definitely worth spending a little time getting to know someone, rather than rushing into a meeting that could be unpleasant, or even disastrous. Most Trannys and T-Girls are good people, but there are those who should be avoided.

Play it safe! - You must screen your T-Girlfriends just as you would screen any other potential friends or lovers. Do they possess undesirable traits such as drug addiction, alcohol abuse, criminal intent, HIV+, etc? Remember that you must protect yourself. I don't want to preach here, but safety is a very important consideration that cannot be overlooked just because you have a raging hard-on! The subject of safe sex also cannot be overemphasized. While TransLover.Com strongly defends a persons right to sexual freedom, we also believe in a responsibility of all people to engage in safe sex. This means getting to know someone before you hop in the sack, using condoms and periodic testing for sexually transmitted diseases. Have fun, but play it safe!

Patience and perseverance are good qualities - Be prepared to sort through a number of Trannys and T-Girls before you meet the person who is just right for you. This is pretty sound advice, don't you think? By trying to rush into something, many good men are turned away by the Trannys and T-Girls I've seen online. Have a little patience and don't give up. Keep trying and refining your approach. If you follow these tips, I assure you there is someone out there who can't wait to find you!

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